How to Put Her First — Talking Points

How to put each other first?

Talk through these 7 points, without having an argument, go on, lead where it matters!

1. Do you connect with each other when you get home at the end of the day? Or does everything else get in the way? How can you make time for a daily download before the madness of the evening routine kicks in.
   
   
2. Can you talk to each other — without being distracted?
   
   
3. Are you each doing your part around home and with the kids?
   
   
4. Are you working on your own mental wellbeing — seeking to turn up at home, emotionally healthy and consistent?
   
   
5. Are you the one person in their world making them feel like the most important person in the world?
   
   
6. Are you attaching physically, often enough? How can you make meeting each others physical needs more of a priority?
   
   
7. Where do you both need to lead where it matters, and what patterns and routines need to change to make the other feel first?